I am not in a relationship by choice, because I am not one of those female to have a boyfriend or husband just to say I have someone. I am beautiful, intelligent, smart and have a goal in life, so I refuse to settle. Looking For: Someone I can have an intelligent conversation with, doesnt matter what the topic is, a person can have brains, but street smarts is sometimes better.A man that know what is goals in life are, and what he wants, well at 30 you should have already have goals and aspirations.