teflon just here, checking things out...finally, coming into my own and being comfortable and happy with who I am - although, I'm still a work-in-progress...finally, understanding of what I want in life and who I want to experience it with...God, family and having fun.. Looking For: female, honest, black, cool, mature, smart, fun (knows how to have fun), pretty on the inside and out, interesting, not too uptight, goals, not looking for a thug but not wanting a softy either...